We're going to Osaka with First Wife to meet J's newest girlfriend .. and J is, to put it lightly, beside himself.
Everything I know of her, I've gotten second hand through J. If you listen to him, they sound like a couple of sixteen year old's who decided to go steady after passing notes in second hour American History.
He has declared his undying love after only two weeks ... she, likewise, has declared he will be "the last man she ever dates." It's hard not to look at this situation and hear the faintest whisper of, "red flaaaaaag!" But since they're both wanting to shift from zero to sixty ... I guess the bottom line is ...
How's it hurting?
I talked with Mom about it tonight ... and her opinion is very blunt. "His first marriage was hard ... for better or worse, she's gone. He deserves some happiness ... he should just go for it. Get married. You and Stoney just go up to the court house with them, stand up with them, and get it over with."
She's right ... he deserves happiness. And I don't have any bad feelings about anything ... just nerves over meeting her. I hope she's nice ... and I hope I like her. For him ... because for some reason he's really fixated on me liking her.
And here is the secret.
If I don't? I'm going to lie. I'm going to smile ... I'm going to tell him that she's wonderful ... and I'm going to let it all go.
K was my friend ... and she's gone. What J does or doesn't do at this point has no effect on her ... and it has no effect on me.
I love Stoney ... and as long as he loves me? It's all good.
I ask the stars up above
Why must I be a teenager in love
Dion - Teenager In Love