He Does This Every Time ...

I could not be more pissed off. My brother decided to grace us with his presence yesterday. He thinks it's a special "gift" when he drives 8 hours to surprise us with a visit. However, he doesn't realize that we have lives ... and when he does this, it means I have to drop everything or else I look like an asshole for not wanting to visit with him. It's not that ... it's just that I am so tired of getting that phone call that says, "Hey, guess who just pulled in the driveway?"

This has been going on for years. You'd think I'd be used to it now ... but I guess I'm not. He just called now to let me know that I'm expected to "run over" to my Mom's to see him ... and he doesn't care that I just got out of the shower and I'm in my pajamas for the love of God almighty.

I love him. I really do. But is a simple "heads up" too much to ask?

I am, by the way ...
far too angry to think of a song
to fit this situation.
I'm sure there's one out there ...
but since I have to go get re-dressed,
you'll have to imagine your
own lyrics in this spot.